Update: Girlfriend of 3 years cheated? AIO

Original Post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/s/pFJL02VB3g

More Information:

1. I’d like to say we were our firsts for everything, first relationship, love (I’d like to still imagine) etc

2. The extent of the cheating was sending sexual reels in disappearing messages. (It was set to 24 hours instead of when the person viewed it)When I confronted her she said it was just that and after arguing she said they kissed. Honestly with how everything played out tho, I will be getting tested to make sure I have no STD since I personally don’t know how long it started even though she said it was only a week prior to me finding out.

3. I asked her why she did it? She said at home we’d just be existing together. For a little information about that, Im currently studying law while she works in a call center. She’s always felt insecure about not knowing what to do with her life and I’ve always pushed her to do different things like starting a business, going back to school if she wanted to pursue a bachelors. But I guess with how busy I got with studying since Im hybrid she felt neglected but she never brought it up. Issues she did brought up I tried my best to fix and she said that she felt like she wasn’t good enough for me.

Now to the jits of everything that had happen

For the first three days she started doing overtime more, and I could feel that all the years spent were slowly fading. Not my proudest moment but I drank and ended up in the hospital. The hardest part? Turns out she was out with the dude prior and they got robbed. (Karma)

They took his phone, bag, wallet etc. same for her and they spent majority of her money on her wallet on SHEIN lol. Like that was so crazy hearing her rant while I almost choked on vomit earlier the night since I was vomiting a lot.

Obviously there’s more to the story on how I ended up in the hospital and how she and I had the discussion but at this time it’s very to think about the details as I don’t want to think about it much anymore.

She ended up going back to her grandparents house 2 days later after we broke up in the hospital. I only stayed in the hospital for a day and a half and was cleared to leave. I have to keep going back for mental health checks weekly due to the incident relating on how I ended up in the hospital.

So long story short. I ended the relationship, not In the proudest way but after realizing it was detrimental to my health. I started gyming, been going for a week now and I hope I can continue. If there’s any update to the story I’ll be more than happy to share but for now this the end of this chapter.

But I’ll be mentally checking out of relationships for a while until I’ve healed because my trust right now is on ground 0. Thanks to all those who have reached out!

Until next time something important happens!