For those with emotionally immature parents

Pregnancy has caused me to realize I have emotionally immature parents, siblings and I’m probably a little bit myself but def am an internalizer lol (I’ve been listening to children of emotionally immature parents). But yeah my post history will show all that my mother has done and last week I sat on the phone with her for 2 hours not really getting anywhere. She just continued to play the victim and blame me for “excluding her” during MY pregnancy lol WHAT?! Anyways, for those of you in similar situations, did it get worse when you had your baby? Stay the same, resolve?

I feel my relationship with my mom and step dad has changed forever based on their actions and lack of respect for my boundaries. I truly feel my mom doesn’t care for me and it’s all about her and my baby. I’m just the middle man she needs to get around.