Porket soft at lambutin, gay agad?

One of the struggles I face is people assumed I'm gay kasi ang lambot ko raw at masyadong soft-hearted.

Hindi ba kaya soft at lambutin ang isang lalaki ay dahil sa environment na kinalikahan niya?

What if he was raised in an environment where he was cared so much and lambutin siya kasi people around him treat him as a fragile boy.

How to deal with this? (Please be honest, idc if you say harsh words as long as it is benenificial for my mental health. No sugarcoating please)