Decreased Hypersexuality After Years of Increased Hypersexuality

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It’s definitely been discussed on this subreddit extensively, the cycle of how we get here. SA happens —> sadness and shame from the incident —> sex drive increases through the roof + realizing you get off to the past abuse —> shame for developing rapekink —> acceptance of new kink —> hyper sexuality continues.

What I want to know is if others have experienced that hypersexuality and/or sex drive to decline?

I experienced the increase and went through understanding and accepting the reasons why I became so hypersexual. I felt horny all the time to the point of impacting my daily life and accepted my newfound kink and want for this type of sex. I experienced a lot of satisfying CNC sex. As the years have gone by, I feel like my sex drive and hypersexuality depleted down to nothing. I still get horny thinking about this type of stuff, but it’s not constant like it was before.

I don’t know if it’s just from aging and hormone changes, or if that boost in sex drive was always temporary. I’m no where near menopause and there hasn’t been any significant medical changes for me aside from natural age progression. I wanted to know if there are others who are not new to this whole cycle who have also experienced a decrease in hypersexuality after a while.

I’m glad that my daily life doesn’t really feel impacted as much anymore, but I feel like I’m trying to come to terms with this newer change I guess? Any input would be appreciated.

Posted Oct 14, 2025, 12:58 PM UTC

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