Anybody else narcissistic/toxic parents try to guilt trip you for existing?

Yesterday my narcissistic and toxic mom was going on about how she carried me and all the pain she went through. First of all that's not my fault and second of all I didn't ask to be born in this shitty ass world! 😡 Narcissists never wanna talk about the pain and trauma they put you through during your childhood. Of course if I would've said something she would've gaslighted me. 🙄