How can I drop subtle hints I want sex?

I’ve recently started dating someone and we have been on 2 very good dates. We get along really well, time literally flies when we are together. At the end of the first date, he didn’t kiss me which was disappointing but he said (as we had been drinking), he didn’t want to take advantage of me.

Anyways, we have a date in a couple of days and I really want to get physically intimate (to see if there is a physical connection as well as deep/emotional connection). We have arranged to go for food but how do I subtlety hint that I want to go over to his place so we can have a little privacy and see where things lead?

He has already mentioned he wants to take things slow which I also do but I think the fact that we have only just had a quick peck on the mouth and nothing more intimate is bothering me considering how attracted we are to each other.

Posted Oct 14, 2025, 1:00 PM UTC

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