35 [M4F] #Bedfordshire UK - Looking for a birdwatching partner with benefits...?

Evening,

So yeah... after several years I have finally come out of the closet as a birdwatcher. In the past I have passed it off as "just being interested in nature" but eventually I wasn't even convincing myself. So here I am, a twitcher, birder or bloke with too many binoculars and a pretty good eBird life list. Call it what you want.

Now I suspect most people will be thinking this is about as niche as one of these r4r posts gets, and not even in an exciting kinky way. However if you're remotely interested in birdwatching, and also interested in a relaxed affair or friends with benefits kinda deal, perhaps you'll read on.

So the scenario I'm picturing is something like this: we meet up at a quiet birding spot and go for a walk around, chatting and enjoying spotting the wildlife. Maybe some flirting, kissing, maybe some touching and other teasing. When we're done, or perhaps when the excitement gets too much, we head back somewhere for some more intimate fun...

Ideally looking for more than a one off, someone to build a friendship with and share some birdwatching adventures with, more than just the sexual side of things. But of course that's important too.

A bit more about me: I'm 6ft tall, could probably describe me as having a dadbod, a bit chubby, hairy chest etc. I'm outdoorsy and pretty active, intelligent and practical. I'm married and not looking to change my situation, or anyone else's, but it's lacking certain things. I have experience with meeting people from Reddit in the past.

A bit about you (if you're still reading!): I'm open to all ages, shapes, sizes. I'm more attracted to a connection with someone than physical looks. If you're married too that's great, but not essential as long as you're understanding about my situation and the need for discretion.

Should probably add that although Bedfordshire is home I work in various places around England, so being local to me is definitely not essential.

Drop me a message if this is your kind of niche! X