29m curious virgin younger looking for older man

I’m new to this side of myself and starting to explore what I really want. I tend to be more on the submissive, softer side and am hoping to meet someone confident who can guide me into being a sub bottom. I’m very discreet and prefer to keep things private, so it’s totally fine if you’re married or on the down low. I’d like to get to know someone first and see where it goes — if we click, I’m open to traveling for a weekend to make it real