God gave me a sign I asked for but I disobeyed

I have been with my hubby for 21 years. We have a beautiful 16 year old daughter. My hubby has a thing about kicking me out of the house in anger, thankfully I can go to my father's house with open arms. Every time I say its the last time but we always reunite the same or next day. I am usually the one reaching out first to fix things. The last time I didn't call or text. I figured this it then, I need to start over. He ended up calling me first. After a long talk, guess what happened? He wants me to come home. I am a Christian and prayed alot on what should I do? I prayed with all of my heart on soul for a sign to God to see if I should go back or not? I was on my father's porch when I made this prayer and as soon as I opened my eyes a opossum walked out of a bush and just stayed there for a bit looking at me and left. I have never seen one around my father's property. I looked up what opossum spiritually means and it means death and a foolish man. I knew at that moment that this was the sign. Anyway, I went back home and everything was good for a bit. Now hubby is talking about how he can just kick me out again. I love my hubby but he makes it impossible sometimes and I really feel like my daughter needs both of us. The main reason for the arguments is that he thinks I am cheating with the guy across the street. I dont talk to this guy, I didn't even know his name until Hubby told me. He wants me to admit to something I didn't do. I dont want to lie and damn myself to hell. I seriously dont want any other guy, I just want my hubby. He is enough for me. If we breakup for good, he will be my last. I am seriously done. I will just concentrate on my faith and my daughter. The point is I prayed for a sign and received it but I didn't listen. I have asked God for forgiveness and everything. I dont want to leave my family but I dont want to disobey God again, especially if its something I asked for. Has anyone been in this situation? If so what happened? I kind of know I have to leave for a bit of safety and peace but I dont want to leave my daughter either. I am at a loss because I want to keep our family together but I know its not good for our daughter to see this too. My hubby keeps saying he saw me and our neighbor together but I dont even know this man. Its like some kind of delusion took hold of my hubby. I am also trying to bring him to church with me so he can truly know Jesus and the Holy Spirit. I think also this is what God wants. In the Bible it talks about how one spouses belief will bless the other and God covers that house. We are bonded together and this is where my confusion lies.