What exclusivity means to you ❤️

I thought I would make a positive post, as there has been quite a lot of unfortunately negative posts (not hating I know most of the posts are from people needing help and wanting to vent) so I though we should all share why exclusivity is important to us. This is a topic that confuses a lot of non monogamous people so I hope that this will be educational for any nm people that what to learn about monogamy.

So basically why is exclusivity is important to you? Why is it important for you to be chosen by your partner over others? What does it feel like to be chosen/exclusive.

One of reasons for me is, it's about feeling special having something you don't have with someone else. Wanting to feel special and make someone else feel special. It's also about focus, know your both focused on each other so you never feel lonely/neglected. There are others but I want to hear what you guys think.