FTM here. Have you experienced this?

I’m a first time mom and I’m pretty young but I’m doing my very best for my 3 weeks old baby. Have you ever experienced when your baby cries in your arms and doesn’t calm down no matter what you do but once someone else holds her she instantly calms down and even falls asleep. I’ve been getting a lot of “you’re just being too negative” or “dont be too negative when you hold her”