OA lang ba ako ako? If aminin ko na ooffend pa din ako sa simpleng comment ng iba about my body?

Context: 28 years old and I am a plus size woman. Hindi naman sa never ako nagtry mag diet I did almost everything para pumayat ako pero I guess nasa genes at the same time I always lose in the battle of consistency. The good thing is medyo matangkad ako at most of my fats ay nasa balakang at legs pero hindi pa din mawala yung may simpleng mag comment about my body. Yung pasimpleng sabi na “mag diet ka” “ang laki mo” etc. sobrang laking impact din yung fact na my ex boyfriend was not physically attracted to me that’s why he dumped me. I hate this feeling. Gusto ko ibalik sa kanila yung simpleng pag body shame nila pero mas iniisip ko pa din yung mararamdaman nila.