Talk me down please

Okay so I went into this seeking companionship, maybe a few fun dates, a long term relationship at most.

I met a guy who is an exactly my type. Creative artist/musician, super intelligent, gets my need for solitude/time to concentrate on creative projects, thoughtful, gorgeous, doesn’t like football 🤭, great listener, will bring up a little details I mentioned later on in conversation, has his life together, never married, no kids. Also, off the charts chemistry. Even asked on one of those don’t date him girl pages and got a good ‘reference’ lol.

On our first date, we met for coffee in the afternoon and ended up not getting home until nearly midnight. Just talking, no drinking. We’ve had the conversation of wanting to see where this goes and that we both really feel like something is there. He planned an amazing date for us this past weekend, absolutely perfect. Ended up sleeping together for the first time and damn that was good. Did the pillow talk thing for hours, he said how lucky he is to have found me. This was Saturday night.

Neither of us are big texters, and we’ve even discussed that. But now I’ve initiated conversation Sunday and Monday, just a quick comment, gotten a reply back (Sunday’s reply was super sweet), and then nothing. I’m telling myself I will wait for him to reach out today. We didn’t make set plans but both said we wanted to see each other later this week.

Should I ask him what’s up or if he’s changed his mind? Wanting to slow way down? Am I overthinking?