Source for/Summary of the R@cism Reconciliation?

I have yet to find a source/summary of how the r@cism explicitly expressed (allegedly, as I am not a Bible believer) by Jesus in Matthew 15:21-28 (and elsewhere) is reconciled with the fundamental tenets of Christianity (unconditional love, we are all "God's Children", Salvation criteria, etc). All attempts that I've found/heard in person pretty much do one or more of the following:

• "it's okay that that it's r@cist because it's in the Bible" ❌️

• "it's not as bad as you think, a better translation would be like a pet dog or a puppy" ❌️

• "he affirmed her faith afterwards, though" ❌️

• "it's not even r@cist, that's just how they talked back then" ❌️

Let me know if I'm missing any.

My agenda, of course, is to point out distortion in this Book (if no proper reconciliation exists) and to point out that extremist (dare I say the "T" word) Christian groups like the KayKayKay have a verbatim Biblical precedent for their beliefs & practices.

And of course, feel free to flesh out the attempts I've mentioned above. The ❌️ represents my rejection of these conclusions, not my unwillingness to discuss them.