Act 1 HM Quest Order question

So I have completed this game about 4 times now, and now I want to finish it in Honor Mode. I have completed Tactician, two TAVs and a Durge (twice as well, once resist and the other full give-in).

My problem is that I overthink everything. I have already attempted HM twice and find myself under leveled for some of the quests. So I thought I would do a quick ask and see what you lovely people choose to do.

So what is your preferred order of quests in order to make sure that you are properly leveled and maximize your chances for success. Generally of course.

The order I am thinking right now:

Whither's temple
Grove attack
--Raphael Cheese--
OwlBear
Goblin village
Spider Queen
Karlac / The Risen Road
Wakeen's Rest
Aunti Ethel
Korga
Free Helsin / Goblin City
Sussar Bark
Underdark Beach
Wizard Tower
Nere
Adamantine Forge
Githyanki Encounter
Temple Trail
Lothandar's Blood
Creche

Did I miss anything?

Also, please rate my planned group:

Wyll (main) - Fully Warlock pact of the blade (this is a first for me, I played mainly Paladin for my first run, and then barb for my second. I have never played a Warlock even on TT.)
Shart (tank/support) - Life Cleric, switch to Tempest in ACT 3
Astarion (dps/sneak/traps) - Ranger Deep Stalker, with Dual Wield Fighting style.
Gale - Invoker / Karlac - Bear Totem <--Depending if I need more DPS or Control