I need a BF I swear! How can I find one? What's the best app or in-person places to meet?

Been having weird thoughts recently about dating and getting in a relationship with someone. I've gotten tired of the way Grindr and Sniffies work. It's all about hooking up but now that I want to date for real idk what to do.

What is the best dating app you've used to get a guy who is actual BF material?

If not on an app, how and where did you meet your BF in-person?