Average experience playing multiplayer

Bro the people in multiplayer on this game are so insufferable. As soon as I join a server there’s at least 1 guy with a jet strapped with thousands of emps flac cannons and blasters shooting at me when I’m tryna have a mech fight with someone else. The. I message the person to ask them to stop and they be saying ‘stop crying 😂’ bro it’s soo irritating. Then I get in my jet and kill them for the next 30 mins until they kick me or they leave and it’s soo boring. I feel this games community is full of irritating 12 year olds that hate fun. Anyone else feel the same 😂?