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23 [M4A] Germany/Online Shy sub looking for gentle domme/dom

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Hey, thanks for checking out my post!

Just like the title suggests I'm a quite shy and inexperienced guy who's currently discovering his submissive and obedient side. I'm a very kind and open-minded person and am looking for someone equal in this regard.

As I'm still very inexperienced, it would be best if you bring a little bit of patience and could take the lead for the beginning. But I promise that I try to make it worth your while and aim to please you like the obedient boy I am ;)

Also, I'm looking for a connection on eye level. Someone who still shows respect despite the clear power dynamics, as trust is really important to me in this context. So please no harsh degradation or insulting. And I'm not really comfortable with sending pics in the beginning, but it's something I might be persuade to, if we built a certain level or trust.

I hope I haven't forgotten to write anything important. If you still have questions, just feel free to ask :) And of course you can also share your expectations and wishes. I'm confident we can find some common ground, so everyone will be satisfied! I'm happy to hear from you and wish you a very nice day!

Oh, and please include your asl in the first message so I have a rough picture of who you are :)

P.S. I'm a bit on the chubby side, just so you know beforehand

Posted Oct 28, 2025, 4:55 PM UTC · locked

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