She said she loved me once, now she acts like I’m nothing 17M 17/F

I M/17 need some advice. There’s this girl F 16 I’ve been talking to for a 5-6 Months . We had an emotional connection that felt way deeper than a normal teenage thing. We used to talk every day, she told me she loved me once, and I genuinely cared about her more than anyone else.

But suddenly, things started changing. Her replies got dry and short. When I tried asking what’s wrong, she said stuff like “ja na uss ladki ke paas, usse baat kr” — as if I was cheating, which I wasn’t. Then she said “chal thik hai koi na” and just left me on sent for almost two days.

Later, she blocked me. I thought it was over — but here’s the weird part: She still logs into my account (she had my password). I can literally see her activity. She blocked me everywhere but still checks my account and reads my messages. She even saw a long message I left in my own DMs explaining everything — but never replied.

And just recently, when we had a short talk, she told me,

“I’m not even 1% interested in you.” That hit hard, because not too long ago she said “I love you.”

I know she’s emotional and gets jealous easily, but this time it feels different — like she’s angry, hurt, and trying to act cold. But if she truly didn’t care, why does she still check my account?

I’ve been seeing weird angel numbers too — 11:11, 222, 555, 717, 919 — especially whenever I think about her or try to move on. Maybe it’s just coincidence, but it makes me feel like there’s something more to this connection.

I’m not trying to chase her anymore.

But I still think about this girl every day, even though she’s the one who said she doesn’t care.

Posted Oct 28, 2025, 4:58 PM UTC

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