Gay men of reddit, how many of you feel some attraction to women?
This is just out of sheer curiosity. Now I know the term "gay" means you're interested in having sex with and dating members of the same gender as you, but I wonder if any guys here who identify as gay feel some attraction to women, even if they wouldn't act on it and strongly prefer men. I know that just as admitting some same sex attraction can be frowned upon in straight society, admitting some opposite sex attraction can be perceived as "conforming to heteronormativity" in queer spaces. Also, sorry bi guys, but this question is directed specifically towards men who identify as gay. If you identify as bi I assume you're openly admitting multiple attractions (I'm a bi woman myself)
Posted Oct 28, 2025, 4:59 PM UTC
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