44m… I want to have a crush on you….

Aren’t those fun?!

I want one of those. I want that new connection/relationship energy.

Honestly I’m looking for my person. Maybe not for forever (though I’m open to that) but at least for right now.

I feel I have a lot to offer. I’m attentive and consistent. I’m genuine and kind. I lead when invited to do so.

I’m not looking to change my situation or yours. But I know that life is long and marriage is hard and sometimes it’s just nice to have that friend in your pocket that makes your days better and more exciting.

It’s nice to have good morning and good night texts. It’s nice to have this exciting little secret.

For what it’s worth I’m 6ft, 195lbs with salt and pepper hair and beard. I do what I can to stay in shape and not be ashamed when I take off my shirt at the local pool.

I take my coffee black and my whiskey neat and usually just drink tap water during the day because filling up your cup from the fridge takes too much time.

This is the part of the post in which I’m supposed to describe my ideal woman… but isn’t that a waste of time? I’m not so pretentious as to tell you all the things you need to be for me to engage with you.

So if you want to talk, I do too…