38[M4F] Are you ‘too hot’ to be on here? Me too. This post is for us
Full disclosure: I’m not an overly arrogant type. But the mountain of riff-raff and gross men posting in this subreddit makes me need to be blunt, lol.
About me: I’m tall (6’2), white, in my upper 30s and married with kids. I’m educated (masters ++) and I work an Important Job™. I have a good sense of humor, am very (very) fit and take good care of myself and have a full head of hair. Conversely enough I’m in a “happy” marriage and my wife is an excellent mother. The crux is that she has HSDD, we have run the gamut of therapies and counseling and medications, but we just could not be further apart in terms of libido and needs. She’s a great partner and parent, though, so I’m not going to disparage her. I’m the one posting on here, so if anyone needs disparagement it’s me!
Anyways. About you: You’re married, have kids, and are in a similar situation to me. You’ve considered making a F4M post on here before but hesitate because you know there’s a legion of goblins hovering in here with gross pics of their slimy peepees ready to send to the first woman that responds. You’re not looking to change your situation, but having a daily texting buddy that you actually have mutual attraction to, that can make you laugh, and even, eventually, get spicy with you whenever you’re alone and in the mood sounds like the dream.
Does this sound good?? I’m working from home today, so DMs open!
Posted Oct 30, 2025, 3:53 PM UTC