Goodbye

Hi all. I haven't posted here in a long time but was very active for a while. My WH blindsided me with an affair with someone I thought was a close friend. She proceeded to be a bunny burner and he proceeded to let me down in every area. We had a nursing infant and an older ND child in crisis at the time. That's the very short version.

It has been nearly 2 years since D-day and I've just asked for a divorce. The damage done is far too much for me to overcome. And I also came to the realization that I do not Want to overcome it. It was far too heinous for me to attempt repair without completely abandoning myself.

I'm really proud of myself for knowing this is the right choice. I'm really proud of myself for giving myself the gift of time to find real clarity and not act impulsively. I'm really proud of myself for keeping my side of the street clean. I'm really proud of myself for giving it a good and honest try for the sake of my children.

Thank you all so much for your support as I navigated what will undoubtedly be the most painful time of my life. I'm proud of all of you too, and I wish you all the gift of finding your own truths and clarity, whatever they may be. Take good care 💗