After struggling and reading this sub for months, I decided to share 😭 I want you all to share your opinions, please.

Me (27M). My Girlfriend (22F). My Mother-in-Law (MIL, 40sF).

My girlfriend and I have been together for about three years. We lived together for a while, but she moved back to her parents’ place in another city because of some issues with our arrangement and her job. We're still together, but we've been talking about breaking up, and it's pretty much certain we'll end things soon. Generally, I do love her and I don't want to hurt her. I'm Bisexual and she is Straight. I told her this from the start to be completely honest about how sexual I am and my needs, like having an open relationship, even though we’ve always been monogamous.

I've always been a very sexual guy, I think about sex a lot, and I consider myself pretty liberal. My girlfriend has always been my type: curvy, busty, and well-endowed in the back. I've always felt a huge attraction to her and to curvy women in general.

But everything changed when I met her mother. The attraction to my MIL started the instant I saw her. She's also curvy, and on top of that, she's a mature MILF, which is a massive draw for me. Right away, I knew I felt an enormous lust for her. The fact that she is my girlfriend's mom, the "forbidden fruit," just makes everything ten times hotter. It’s definitely that saying: the hidden is the tastiest.

My obsession with her is surreal. Over these years, there were times I was having sex with my girlfriend, coming and masturbating thousands of times while fantasizing about my MIL. I constantly read the stories about MIL obsessions here on Reddit, and they hit me hard, making me imagine her and me.

I also consider myself good-looking and "nice-size," which gives me the confidence to believe I actually have a chance with her.

Whenever I hug my MIL, I try to make it a long, tight, and intimate hug. I've smelled her neck and hugged her very close to her hip area. On some occasions at her house, I’ve even looked for and smelled her underwear in her room.

Nothing has ever happened between us, and I know the desire is entirely on my side. But I would give anything to try and get closer. My MIL gives off a "naughty lady" vibe. My girlfriend has mentioned that her parents' relationship is shaky and that her mother gets up to some things on the sly. The issue is that she lives in another city, which messes up my chances of accessing her alone.

The dilemma is this: I am absolutely obsessed. If I invested the right time, I am certain I could convince her to be with me. I would do anything to get a taste of her. My ethical side is screaming because I don't want to be a scoundrel or mess with my girlfriend. But, at the same time, I think that if I dragged out the breakup with my girlfriend, I would have a better chance of getting closer to her mother and getting what I want so badly. The lust is surreal, but the fear of hurting both of them is very, very real.