Mixed signals!

Hey, I’ve been talking / snapping this one girl for a couple years at least now and I really do like her but she’s bisexual leaning more on the lesbian side.

So she texts me randomly “let me come over now or never” and I replied “yeah come now”, and then she starts going into of what she wants me to do for her when she comes over “emp and back scratches”. Which I have no problem of doing just kinda threw me off, so she ends up driving 40 mins to me btw first time we ever met irl.

I ended up getting her food, we had a really great time just really comfortable and at ease surprisingly for me considering my anxiety. Also I didn’t know she wanted to stay the night and so we ended up sleeping together in the same bed, nothing happened but i did try to get to a understanding of her. She said she’s only dated guys for the most part and that she can’t be romantically involved with men even though given her past, idk man I just don’t wanna put my feelings out there more than I alr did. Really just confused tbh.