I thought Loving myself I should be guilty or shamed of

It is honeslty has been a constant pain to hear myself say i should be ashamed or guilty for loving my own self and respect my own needs and things.

When im learing its honeslty way more important that I focus on my own self and have some compassion for me then just doing what everyone hopes and wants me to do then just burdening myself with others guilt and shame and anger that there projecting on me when its just them trying to shake my confidence.

I learn the truth that loving yourself should not make me be guilty or shamed of and should be proud of.