What is this gift? Sharing sensations through touch...

I often give my wife massages, we both enjoy this. And if I can focus my intentions, I can remove negative energy from her, and I begin to feel the sensations she is feeling in my hands. I know when my touch feels really good and she will often let out a coo simultaneous with my hands feeling strong positive energy in the place I am touching. The energy in my hands is mixing with hers and driving out the negative. This can transfer into a whole body experience if we go from massage to sex. She will begin "knowing" when her touch is driving me crazy in a good way. What is this???