I need help to stop loving someone that doesn’t want to be with me!

As the title says. I’m still in the stage of non acceptance. Today is the worst because I let myself believe I was ok with not being together for a little while, and then last night I realised I want to be with him more then ever. It hurts so bad I cry multiple times a day. We are still in the same house and him not taking the opportunity to relinquish the present moments of living in the same home together is proving to me that he really doesn’t want this. I begged him to let me sleep next to him last night without touching him just to feel close to him/numb my loneliness. He refused. Today hurts more than ever. I am a lost loser.