What does it mean when a girl says "both clearly aren’t ready for this talk"?
So I asked this girl out over text today, and I'm honestly not sure if she rejected me or not. I asked her out because she gave ALL the good signs, and her friends said that she liked me, and my friends said that she obviously liked me, and she was flirty with me and gave good signs.
So I asked her out over text and I kinda immediately regretted it.. Below is a summary of what I sent.
{this is a summary}
Me: Wanna be more then friends?
Her: DW, I'm curious why do you like me
me: I just like spending time with you, and talking with you
Her: Me too
Me: So just friends?
Her: Id like to talk to you tm in school
Me: Why don't we just never bring this up ever again (I though she rejected me)
Her: But I like you too
Me: Why don't we just be friends
Her: We both clearly arent ready for this talk how about we let some time pass, why don't we talk about this later
Me: fine
Her: Im serious tho I do like you
Me: If you just want to be friends I would prefer if you just like uh tell me up front
Her: But its you
Me: well uh why don't talk about this later...
WTF DOES THIS EVEN MEAN GNG. DOES SHE JUST NOT WANT TO DISSAPOINT ME HELP
Posted Oct 30, 2025, 4:04 PM UTC