Why do christians, muslims, and jews all hate each other while believing in quite literally the same things?

It's becoming quite popular and normalized in Europe and North America to hate on muslims. And while a lot of muslims have screwed up beliefs, I'm not sure why christians believe they are any different?

All 3 religions preach persecution, women covering up and being submissive to men, homosexuality being prohibited, encourage violence with any and all who disagree with the religion, and yet they all think they're different from each other?

A double standard I see here in the US is that they will call muslims pedophiles and misogynists for making women cover up their bodies. Then people praise the amish for having the same beliefs? Or cover up the fact that so many priests molest children?

It's so dumb, and I believe it's not a morality issue but a religious pissing contest. Even though they all are the same. They all tell their followers to hate and that they are superior. Yet no religious person seems to make that connection