[M37] Where to start?

Hi! I am trying to define what I am really… I am married my wife is not really into the sub/dom thing, but I am. Not sure which side though, both turn me on, and interestingly enough what turns me on on the dom side, would not if I was subjected to it on the sub side. 😅

Anyway I would like to get some advices, or hear about experiences from this community.

Thanks!