My mom thinks I say something wrong to drive Rishtas away

So my mom has brought me 4 Rishts till now and none of them worked out after I talked to them for few days or month and she just said that what is it that you talk to these guys that they say “no”. She was implying that I say something wrong or deliberately do something to push them away.

Let me tell you, that 1 guy among them seemed totally disinterred, I even told my mom when I talked to him for 2-3 days. Then eventually his family said that they are no proceeding with the Rishta. I recently found out that his father himself told my mother that their son has interest somewhere else and apologised for wasting our time, I got to know this from my bhabi months after all this happend. My mother didnt tell me this and behaved as if I was not good enough or something

Then there was this another guy, we talked for few days but the vibe was off, it felt too formal all the time. I had thought of talking to him about it but before that he himself said no to m mom. Again, idk what my fault was there but somehow my mom indirectly blamed me for it asking “aisa kya baat kiya tumne ki he said no” Man, how would I know that???

The third guy I talked to lived in another country, the conversations were nice however I had apprehensions about moving to another country and I was also talking to the second guy at the same time so the conversations just fizzled out eventually with him.. nobody said no or no.. we just stopped talking slowly.

Now the latest guy, I talked to him just for 2 days and then he didnt text me back. Now my mother is again implying that I say something wrong to them that they run away🤷‍♀️

I have also talked to guys that I met on matrimonial apps however, none of them said no so far, it was me who thought it was not working for some or the other reasons. So basically my mother is trying to say that whatever rishta SHE brings I say something to drive them away.

I literally dont why is that but I dont like how she is making it all my fault.