It is menopause...or something else?

Does anyone think there might be a correlation to a wife's perspectives on politics and feminism and how they treat their spouse during menopause? I note that many of the women on r/menopause who are particularly toxic seem to be mostly very progressive feminists who also have a general distain for men. For the men on here, is your wife moderate, progressive, conservative? For the men who have conservative wives, how are they treating you during menopause? Same question for the men with progressive wives.