Anyone offer any dating advice?

Hi guys and gals I've been having some trouble with dating since I came out as Bi last year. I decided to go back to online dating and have found its still as miserable as it was before, minimal matches with women and any men I match with only want one thing and it makes me nervous. From talking with friends I've been told my standards are too high (don't like facial/body hair, prefer women and twinks pretty much) but is it bad to have preferences? Am I being unreasonable for not liking body hair at all on a partner? I'm almost 30