The reason you’re unhappy with PVP

It’s because you take it too seriously. You have to accept the fact that the risk of dying in this game and losing all your gear is precisely why this game is so good. If the game was made to your comfort, then it wouldn’t be a thrill to play.

That also goes for the ARCs being somewhat difficult when you encounter them. It forces a bit of strategic gameplay and keeps you on your toes.

When you die in the game (which everyone will encounter sooner or later) - take it with grace. Learn from your mistakes. Let go of the loot you lost - and go topside again with excitement for the next experience.

You’ll win some and you’ll lose some. That’s the way the cookie crumbles, boys. Learn to enjoy a game that pushes you outside of your comfort zone.