Should I just start dressing normal/more feminine so people treat me better?

I am an ugly woman, I know I am. The last three years I’ve been dressing in pretty extreme fashion and makeup. Trad goth/New romantic fashion to be specific. But people online and in person constantly tell me how ugly I am, and all the other goth girls I see are beautiful. Even other goths tell me I’m not goth/I can’t pull it off. I don’t think I have the looks to get away with dressing in such an extreme fashion. That’s why I’ve been thinking of dressing more feminine and classy, and dying my hair blonde/wearing blonde wigs. I hope that even if I’ll still be ugly at least people will treat me better if I dress nicer.