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>So a few weeks back, while we were hanging out with friends this rich girl was hanging out with my gf in the other room for a couple of hours.they were making music and sort of like producing I guess. Anyways the rich girl was impressed and felt a connection with my gf she gave her a dell laptop with abelton on there(it’s an expensive music production software). She said it was no big and had a few laptops she was trying to get rid of anyways. My gf was so ecstatic on the ride home it was all she could talk about . I was so annoyed, I honestly don’t feel like she deserves the laptop she didn’t do anything to earn it and she always picks hobbies up and drops them when she is bored of it she never sticks to anything. I didn’t say much on the ride home. Well she has been working a lot on the laptop to make a song. I was honestly surprised she stuck to something this much. She wrote lyrics to it and everything.

>Today she wanted me to take her to an open mic to perform it. I said okay I’ll do it. Anyways while she was waiting she was visibly nervous because she never performed in front of anyone, I told her just to suck it up and do what she practice. Like why did she make me take her out here if she isn’t ready. Anyways when she gets on stage she starts hesitant while performing when the song comes on, it gets awkward at the place , this has just felt like it dragged on too much so I said out loud “ oh come on you serious you brought me out here for this? Can we go already?” I could be at home watching anime or sleeping but instead I have to endure this cringe fest. She gets off stars basically hyperventilating. She doesn’t even look at me and run out of the bar/venue of the open mic. I tried calling her and messaging her but no dice. Like where can she possible go we live in such a big city. Her actions are so confusing to me it almost feels she has some mental disorder where she just keeps randomly switching emotions, it’s probably why she can’t stick to a single passion. We are pretty open to each other and tease each other all the time I wasn’t trying to exactly hurt her feelings just tease her so we can go home. Now I am worried about her. If only she focused on practical stuff rather than trying to live a fantasy that will never happen(make it big)

>Edit: okay okay I forgot to mention the time she picked up comedy and quit. Dropped out of art school, watched the food channel then wanted to be a chef. I can probably think of a few more things. It just gets exhausting, you guys don’t understand. I don’t want to crush her spirits I just want her to get on the right path. She can put all this energy into our relationship. I didn’t actually boo her I just told her let’s go already so she can practice more and if she does stick with it more I’ll Be more than happy to take her back. I always supported her 100%.

AITA for booing my gf on stage?