Parents gaslighting

I have a good relationship with my mum. Love and hate pero mostly love, I am the breadwinner-takes care of mostly household expenses, takes her out of may extra money. One time, i kind of reacted kasi we were talking about renting out a space intended for me, renter left the space but not so new na ang space but di naman dilapidated. She reacted-parentahan mo eh hindi nga ayos ang kisame, sinu rerenta niyan? 😱 I realized, she giving me negative vibes-simple manifestation na wala daw magrerent. So the argument continued, kawawa daw siya sa akin sabi ni papa nung buhay pa! Ayaw daw niyang tumira kasama ako if may asawa na raw ako-am i not providing enough? When will i be enough? Ksi daw professional daw ako-ang dami ko ra kinokorek? Nasa point na akong, ayoko nang maging good daughter kasi wats the point? 😔😭