M4F - Respectful Dom Looking for the Ideal Devoted Sub for Longterm Dynamic

Before you read the prompt, know that I get instantly turned off by low-effort DMs like "hi" and "wnt to rp". If you want me to engage, you will need to be engaging. Also, know that if you use ChatGPT for replies, I'll call you out. I make living out of writing.

"I see you - your shell melting away in my gaze. Your veil of 21st century independent woman for the world around you is your own undoing, All you want is someone to take you by your throat, and enter you as the gasp leaves your mouth.

Maybe it's your abusive childhood, maybe it's the lack of a good parental figure, but it's too late now for maybes, you're set in your ways. The voids remain voids, and the hunger of wanted to be hunted is throbbing.

This is not for the faint hearted, and not for the quick wham-bam roleplay lovers. This will be a slow burn, dynamic, without the proxies of plots or characters. With enough time being spent on communicating, and me helping you take off the weight of the mask of your modern independent self, satiating the deep, primal, almost unapologetic need to be - well, being a cumrag, a doormat and an ashtray."

Now that you know my writing prowess, let me share my perspectives on dom-sub relationships. According to me, submission comes in two forms - first, from threat, second, from devotion.

Porn and poorly wrote erotica has made us all think that true subs work under threat and fear. That doms do nothing but abuse their subs, give them relentless punishment for the sake of their sadistic pleasure, and the sub's role is nothing but to take it. That's not the kind of sub I want.

I want a sub who has the intricate understanding of the fact that submission as an ultimate way of expressing affection and devotion to the other person.

You're not terrified or are not living with a certain fear, but your core is such, that for you, one of the ways of being affectionate is completely giving yourself away to the my whims and fancy...Think of our mothers, and a generation before them.. A majority of them equated being submissive to affectionate.

I want a sub who doesn't submit to me without me having spent enough time earning it Or a sub, who doesn't want to invest some time to gauge me, my sense of identity, my core - and my authority on who she is.

That is the kind of sub I want.

The one who is comfortable and happy being owned by a responsible dom. I don't want you to beg for humiliation, but I want you to be affectionate when I do it. Someone who thrives with being a servitude person. The right sub for me will enjoy the state of being under the control of me, having no freedom, wanting no freedom.

We can discuss our kinks/limits in DM. Also, if you're a man