40 (M4F) #STL/Midwest The scariest thing about halloween...

Is being in a marriage with no sex. I know Halloween is over, so I'm sorry to scare you all like that but I just had to get it out.

In theory I have it all. Good job, nice house, vehicle, family. Unfortunately, after I turned 40 i realized something is missing. The relationship at home is more of a roommate than sexual partner. There's no excitement, mystery or even much of a will for it.

I certainly don't want to start over, but I definitely need someone else to come in and help supplement what I'm missing. If you're in the same place in your life we'll be a good match. Recently had a relationship end that I thought was in a good place, so I need some help getting over it.

Looking for someone athletic/active, I'm a fan of athletic body types, southern accents always get me, and if you happen to be blessed in the chest area, I'm not opposed to that either. (Note that these are preferences and not must haves.)

Other than that, I love to chat via telegram throughout the day. Hopefully you have some experience doing this and you know how to be discreet but also have the time and ability to meet. I'm looking for the physical relationship and not just a writing buddy.

I'm juat going to be home all weekend eating and watching college football. If you're local and want to meet up at a sports bar somewhere or invite me to your place (I can't host) just let me know.

Don't know how to start a message? Tell me your favorite quality about yourself and your favorite candy you got last night. (I'm just assuming you took some from your kids.)