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24F from Georgia, USA: looking to connect with genuine women (open to other states too!)

:gemma: General Post

Hello I’m 24 and from Roswell, Georgia. I’m an introvert and mostly a homebody. I love music and making Spotify playlists (all kinds of music) so I can send you some great playlists or let's exchange playlists. I love binge watching TV shows. I also enjoy riding my bike and I'm so happy I was able to get a ebike, love my bicycle, haven't gotten rid of it but it was quite tiring at times, and its also my way of commuting as I don't know how to drive but it's really a nice escape.

I also have BPD, which can affect how I interact with people, online and irl, and tbh I'm not even sure if I even have this, I was diagnosed by a nearby health center because I had a breakdown in the past and wanted to seek help and it was for a short time I was seeing them but not to self diagnosis myself because maybe I do really have BPD from what they saw because the symptoms make sense and seening it firsthand from myself but I also saw an article somewhere where women can have overlapping symptoms of autism and adhd and may be diagnosed with things such as bpd because they masks Autistic/ADHD symptoms and can be in different parts of the spectrum but anyways I don't let it define me but I want to share that I do have it because I'm not ashamed.

I came out in 2016 as a lesbian but I still feel behind in friendships and dating and often like an outsider. I enjoy texting, deep conversations, and connecting with genuine people who aren't afraid of being weird or being themselves, so if you're someone who isnt a texter, who takes days to respond, I get it, life gets busy but I'm not your person. I want someone who is happy to chat with me and not feel bored.

It would be nice to find someone here in Georgia but if not, I’ll be open to chatting with someone in a different state because I’m having a hard time finding a genuine connection near me for some reason. I’m not trying to sound shallow, but since I’m inexperienced with dating and have never been in a relationship before, I think part of me is also looking for that kind of closeness in a friendship, someone I can share both an emotional and physical connection with. someone who I can be myself with, someone who gets me and isn't afraid of me. I want to still put myself out there, there's been times I have cried because of encounters but I'm going to keep trying because there is someone out there for me. If this sounds like you or can relate feel free to message me :)

PS: thank you for reading my book, I know it was a lot

Posted Nov 1, 2025, 1:21 PM UTC

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