Does our parents see as investment
I always have question in my mind and always wanted to discuss with it . So I am 19M and i have 1 best friend he is friend since from 8th std so you can say that we know lot about each other . So come to main point my friend was very averagish in studies (PCM) but however managed to pass 12th since his parents forced him to goo tier 1 colleges So they fall him in JEE trap . So what happened his father was a toxic father and her mother never gives times to her family or to him . His father abuses like : Tere pe hamne 4 lakh rupey kharch kiya h orr tu ye output dikha rha h and always tonted him and compared him with their childhood life or to his friends. So he became totally silent and Introvert person. He didn't even talk to me for months. And when his jee result came he failed to qualify and his father abusive habit got nore increased and started giving him mother curse yk and more worse than that so he got more silent and Introvert like he never existed and one more thing his father stopped giving him pocket money and doesn't even give him basic (20rs or 30rs ) also . So after all this happened he finally made to top tier 1 college (IIIT HYD) . And now his father started talking to him uploading status of hjs achievement but then he realized . As of now he didn't even go to see his parents especially his father means whenever his father comes to see him he always gives excuses like i am not at home or I at other place since now he is very good condition and became extrovert talks nicely with everyone.
Note : since you are thinking how i got to know this much from him basically when didn't qualify at 1st attempt so he was feeling burn out . So he called me directly let me tell you he didn't call me from 6 months so I quickly picked up and then in his voice i can feel that heaviness so I tell him to my home . Then he came after giving him water he started crying straight 10 mins and I got shocked bcz i never see him crying ulta mey naazuk tha dill se but then he started all this trauma from jee to his parents and that conversation went straight 4hrs. like vo bnda itna saalo kaa trauma mere aage control nhi hua . And mene jaise taise shant kiya and usko uski butter chicken favorite dish khilaya orr bola ki dusra attempt lele and jeey jaan laga dey but achha college m jaa bcz i know him agar baat uska ego p aa gyi too achha krr leta h and usko confidence milla then uss raat mere ghar soo gya and agle morning ussey hugg kiya and chala gya then ham mille sidha uska college m .
Please let know your views kyuki jiss dinn usna apna trauma btaya like mujhe neend nhi aaya.
Posted Nov 1, 2025, 1:26 PM UTC