Toddler suspended, Homeschool plans are Reinforced.

My husband have been on the same page about homeschooling for many years prior to having our son. He is now 3.5.

He is absolutely wild, behind on his speech a bit (in speech therapy), yet BRILLIANT. He can read many words, He knows planets, what day it is, months, subtraction and pays attention to cause and effect of his actions. Yet he can't sit for an activity unless it was his idea and he's fully "ran out".

Already exhibiting signs of autism and intense ADHD (pediatrics can't confirm until 5-7y/o), he has now been suspended from playschool until they hire assistants to shadow him constantly. I don't know if that will be sooner or later.

He was really only there a few days a week to see the friends he made in mom and tot. I am just glad I dont work and required them as daycare.

They warned me about what's going to happen if I were to put my son in public school. What they going to do when they have a class of 30 and he simply leaves or has meltdowns, or won't stop. Essentially how I should expect these types of calls and publicly, He will probably be left behind.

For now I am at a loss about his social needs. I have my own issues as an autistic adult and dont make friends, I dont want to keep him from making friends himself because mommy is a loner and doesn't know people with kids to play with. BUT, If hes going to be kicked out of all the social building activities what will we do?

TL:DR: tot kicked from daycare, homeschool plans are on the horizon. Worried about social skills if hes going to be removed from programs.