These groups and they're insane long list of rules, and people are feeling the need to be a mean asshole for no reason as if my post fucking affects their life at all

You know some of these groups or a subreddits or whatever the hell you want to call them more of the rules than it it takes to do literally anything else in in life and it's freaking some of them are so stupid. And I'm trying on different subreddits or whatever or groups to to post different things and quite honestly just nothing really has been working out for me on Reddit all day! And then I get to random people commenting or whatever cuz my post may be a little long or whatever else the case may just being I mean asshole for no reason as if my post affects their life at all. It's like they're not aware that they can either just not comment anything at all or say what they're trying to say a bit nicer. Awesome to be honest some of these groups quite honestly none of the really need as many rules as there needs to be I mean it's it's freaking insane! Quite honestly I don't even have a clue why I have even been trying to post anything that I have been trying. As if somebody is suddenly going to pop into my life and magically give a crap about me! No one ever has before! No one ever will so I don't know why I'm making any posts anywhere trying to find at least one woman that is different than anyone else in the world was not going to happen. Guess I'm just never going to have anything in my life quite honestly with it how this day has gone in now so many things have gone I can't even take it anymore. I give up.