How did you come to terms with your sexuality?

Hey everyone, i’m a straight presenting dude who would be lying to himself if he said he wasn’t at least attracted to guys. But i’d also be lying if I said I was anywhere near comfortable enough to present that to anyone in my life. At least not my family or friends. I want to explore it, but i’m afraid of getting outed and/or feeling shame for doing so. Any advice you have is helpful :)