Is retired early is a red flag?

I am 45(F) and planning to retire in the next year. Divorced with 1 kid who is a teen. I have been lucky in finances and I don’t see any point in continuing the corporate grind. Both myself and my kid are settled for life barring any severe catastrophe. I plan to devote my time taking care of my physical health, hobbies, volunteering and travel. I hope to date within my tax bracket as I would like to spend the money I earned and find someone who has enough to do the same. Is that a reason for men to think twice because of the whole ‘provider’ mindset and all. I would assume most of the men in 50s would be financially settled as well and want to enjoy the rest of their life.