Can’t tell if ESFJ or ISFJ so imma scream (for fun 🎤)

It took me forever to figure out I was xSFJ at all. Now I gotta know which function I use a nanosecond more of 🤪

I was leaning towards ISFJ because I barely leave my house but I feel like I barely leave cuz of extremely high empathy —- not necessarily concern for stability. In my mind people are generally emotional vampires and it’s a choice I can make to deal with that or not.

It’s hard to say which inferior function I use. I’m definitely afraid of new things and get task paralysis in new situations. But I also may isolate so much due to struggling to “hear” myself when around other people’s energies. I can’t tell if maybe that’s dominant Fe-inf Ti at play.

All in all I really don’t know. I love people actually, I avoid them because I feel I can show that love through working for them behind the scenes vs. working WITH them. One allows me to think properly and listen to what feels right (I’m also Soc/Sx 1w2, 1-2-6 fyi.) The other causes me to care about a bunch of mixed opinions from people who aren’t even motivated by unity vs. what is self-serving. So naturally I stick with the former.

I’m being blunt about what I think in hopes that honestly will help me be typed accuracy. That’s assuming anyone actually tries to help. Thank you, if you do ✌🏽