Did anyone here consider embryo donation?

Hi everyone,

I'm currently at a crossroads and would really value hearing from others who might have been in a similar situation.

My wife and I (both 28) have been through fertility treatments for over a year - multiple failed ICSI attempts, surgeries, and all the emotional ups and downs that come with it. We're both dealing with fertility issues (low AMH, male factor infertility), and honestly, the whole process has been exhausting.

Now my wife is suggesting embryo adoption as our next option, but I find myself questioning whether I actually want to pursue parenthood at all. The stress and struggles have made me realize how peaceful our life could be without children, though my wife has always dreamed of being a mother.

I'm wondering if anyone here went through a similar decision point - where you had the option of embryo donation but ultimately chose the childfree path instead?

I'm especially struggling with feeling like I might be taking away my wife's dream