Second date critical problem

Important backstory So if I recall her ex cheated on her not a while back, when she traveled overseas somewhere. I think she was heartbroken over it. But she likes partying alot and traveling. I don't really mind going if I have time away from work, but can she play the faithful womanwhile doing partying stuff???*****

Had a 2nd date last holloween night at a techno music rave thingy (I only chose this place because she said she likes techno music stuff)Small venue indoors. She looked nice, we hung out briefly before she wanted to drink and go to the dance floor. Personally I don't drink, but her demeanor starts to change so I'm figuring that's the drunkness setting in.

Anyways the first bit of dancing was fine. We were close, had good contact, touching hands etc. Bear in mind we in there for like 3 hours.

We took a quick break and say for a bit, I leaned in I thought the moment was right and ask for a kiss, she laughed and wondered for 2 seconds before saying no. Anyways, so I think she went to the bathroom or got more drinks, can't remember to much but we started dancing again. She starting to dance and drift slowly across the dance floor. There we a couple dudes trying to slither closer and get a lucky hip bump or some shit. So I tried inconspicuously getting in between. Later on she tells me to that I'm "too close" so I back up. Though mostly she doesn't mind me getting close up on her, which I found odd. A little later she says for me to stand behind her. Which I guess is to stop the booty grabbers?

But what really fucking pissed me off, at the end of the dance when she looks quite drunk, some guy grabbed her hands, faced each other and did some quick dance. I wanted to break it up, but it's the only time second date and I really don't know her TOO well. Then I don't know if that was a problem for her. But I regret not at least doing something. But do drunk women even remember doing something?

THEN sometime later she walks off and texting on her phone. And she tries to turn away a bit. Like it was not that "lemme check my social media type of vibe" which is annoying but I could care less.

In my mind after the date I was glad to take a walk with her and chat, or go to her place, or just drop her off. THEN! She tells me to Uber her "friends house". (We weren't driving that day) But it's fucking 30minutes away and it's some secluded ranch or something....

She started to treat getting over there a bit urgent. And it ruined the flow of me chatting up with her. And the Uber driver see us and like took a whole extra 10-15minutes driving somewhere and coming tf back. She asked for my phone a couple times and "gently" snatched it.

This went way worse than our first date

Which is fucking mind boggling. I'm not a big club person but I try to accommodate and try new things.