Does anyone else feel the same or have any advice ?

I’m 17, still single and I have never dated. I’m at an age now where it feels like everyone is starting to get into more serious relationship, not the pointless ones that most relationships at 13-14 are like. Is it unusual or bad to have never dated? Also, please don’t take this as any Incel shit, but how do you go about dating as someone that’s conventionally unattractive? It literally feels impossible, and then it starts to feel like I’ll never be able to get into a relationship and I’ll be single forever, which is the one thing I want least. And of course, I’ve looked stuff up and then you see all these people saying you need to go up to random girls in public you don’t know and talk to them. That’s just not realistic for many people, myself included. I’m heading off to Uni next year and I’m just praying that I meet someone there but I don’t have high hopes. Honestly I don’t think I can keep going like this for much longer.